Well, that's something that needs to be taught. But I'm sure you know someone who makes poor life choices. And I bet nobody swoops in, makes the decisions for them, doesn't tell them what's going on, surprises them with a major life change, and then gets mad when the reaction is anything but rainbows and butterflies.

You may be moving your siblings, and maybe they don't get a say and that's fair, but I've seen people pull up to a house, inform a small child she lives here now, and then get mad because she cried.